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Deciding about Home Ventilation

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Mary and Chayton

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Mary and Chayton

Chayton is 6 years old and uses a feeding tube and wheelchair because of muscle weakness. His parents did not want him to go through the surgery for a trach. He has been able to use BiPAP to help him breathe at home with his Mom, Dad, and older brothers.

Mary and Chayton

Mary putting her children to bed. Chayton is wearing the BiPaP while he sleeps.

“Hi, my name is Mary. My son, Chayton, was just like any other little boy until he was about three…”

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Mary: Hi, my name is Mary. My son, Chayton, was just like any other little boy until he was about three years old. We noticed he was falling down more than his older brothers, and he seemed to be weaker than them. When Chayton got pneumonia, the doctors said it was because he wasn’t swallowing correctly, which caused him to get some of his food into his lungs. Soon he stopped walking and needed a wheel chair. The doctors told us it would keep getting worse. They said he needed a feeding tube. That surgery was really rough on Chayton. He stayed on the ventilator in the hospital for a long time. It was scary. The doctors wanted to do a trach but my husband and I didn’t want Chayton to have to go through another surgery. After three months in the hospital, Chayton finally came home. At that point, he just needed a mask to help him breathe…he was on a BiPAP machine, not the trach. That was a year ago, and he still uses the BiPAP. As Chayton gets sicker, we know we will have to keep talking with the doctors about a trach. At this point, we just don’t think a trach will be right for him.

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BiPAP

Bilevel Positive Airway Pressure: A machine that helps a person breathe by pushing air, and sometimes oxygen, through a mask. Straps keep the mask in place on the face.

Palliative Care

Palliative care aims to reduce a child’s pain or discomfort. Palliative care also helps families consider what is most important to them. Palliative care specialists provide an extra layer of support for children with serious illness and their families.

More about Chayton...

Chayton is 6 years old and uses a feeding tube and wheelchair because of muscle weakness. His parents did not want him to go through the surgery for a trach. He has been able to use BiPAP to help him breathe at home with his Mom, Dad, and older brothers.

More about Chayton...

Chayton is 6 years old and uses a feeding tube and wheelchair because of muscle weakness. His parents did not want him to go through the surgery for a trach. He has been able to use BiPAP to help him breathe at home with his Mom, Dad, and older brothers.

More about Vivian...

Vivian is 4 years old, and had heart surgery as a baby. Then she got pneumonia when she was 2 years old, and couldn’t leave the hospital without a trach and ventilator. Her Mom and Dad wanted her home, and learned to take care of her home vent.

More about Vivian...

Vivian is 4 years old, and had heart surgery as a baby. Then she got pneumonia when she was 2 years old, and couldn’t leave the hospital without a trach and ventilator. Her Mom and Dad wanted her home, and learned to take care of her home vent.

More about Ashley...

Ashley’s parents knew before she was born that she would have many serious health problems, including trouble breathing. Morgan and Matt were given options by their medical team. They knew Ashley’s life would be short, even with a ventilator. They chose to take her home with hospice care. Ashley died at home with her family when she was 3 months old.

More about Ashley...

Ashley’s parents knew before she was born that she would have many serious health problems, including trouble breathing. Morgan and Matt were given options by their medical team. They knew Ashley’s life would be short, even with a ventilator. They chose to take her home with hospice care. Ashley died at home with her family when she was 3 months old.

More about Devin...

Devin is 8 years old and has cerebral palsy and scoliosis. He uses a wheelchair and a feeding tube. When he started to have trouble breathing, not everyone agreed about doing the trach and home ventilator. But his mom believed it was the best thing for Devin. Her aunt helps her care for him at home.

More about Devin...

Devin is 8 years old and has cerebral palsy and scoliosis. He uses a wheelchair and a feeding tube. When he started to have trouble breathing, not everyone agreed about doing the trach and home ventilator. But his mom believed it was the best thing for Devin. Her aunt helps her care for him at home.

More about Ruby...

Ruby was born prematurely and her lungs didn’t fully develop. After being sick for months in the hospital, her parents decided that a home ventilator was not right for Ruby and would not work for their family. She was removed from the hospital ventilator and she died in her father’s arms.

More about Miguel...

Miguel was born prematurely with very fragile lungs. When he was 6 months old his parents chose to for him to have a trach and home vent so he could leave the hospital sooner. He is 9 months old now, and lives with his Mom, Dad, and very active older brother.

More about Miguel...

Miguel was born prematurely with very fragile lungs. When he was 6 months old his parents chose to for him to have a trach and home vent so he could leave the hospital sooner. He is 9 months old now, and lives with his Mom, Dad, and very active older brother.

More about Ruby...

Ruby was born prematurely and her lungs didn’t fully develop. After being sick for months in the hospital, her parents decided that a home ventilator was not right for Ruby and would not work for their family. She was removed from the hospital ventilator and she died in her father’s arms.

Ventilator (or "Vent")

A machine that helps a person breathe by pushing air, and sometimes oxygen, through a tube in the throat. This is sometimes called a “breathing machine.”

Tracheostomy (or "Trach")

A tube that goes through the throat and into the airway. A ventilator can be hooked up to a tracheostomy.